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Thursday, August 9, 2012
Mantastic
Recently I had the opportunity to take part in a gathering of men whose sole purpose was to put their physical skill and ability to drink beer to a grueling one day challenge of testicular size and scope.
The Man Games.
Feats of strength, speed, agility and chugging. During the competition you will down around 17-24 beers. This is low to mid quality beer. Being sure to avoid the Keystone cooler at all costs. That does not count the sipping beers to pass the time until your team of two is called in to action. Expect your daily total to be 22-30 beers. This contest was not meant for the faint of heart or World of Warcraft players. It was meant for men. Instead of going into each event, I would like to instead, recap what it takes to have a successful man game experience:
1. No women and no cell phone coverage. This is self explanatory. But I will explanatory it anyways. In order to have your mind and body focused on the task at hand, you cannot be tethered to the grasp of the opposite sex. They cloud the mind and scatter your thoughts. They are your favorite food in the fridge. Out of sight, but within reach, you will be drawn to them. Then you will find the food does not agree with you and wind up leaving early screaming at your food for making you come home.
2. Invite a few people who you are willing to either frame or kill and dispose of their bodies if things go south. Kind of like the opposite of a Bruno Mars song. I will throw a grenade at you. Push you in front of a train, it’s true. You might have to die for us brother, but we won’t do the same. Let me give you a hypothetical situation. 9am and the games are set to start. Everyone is stretching and shaking off the cobwebs from the night before. A ranger approaches with his female partner (assuming subordinate) clapping his hands saying “This is great! This is just awesome! You Guys are great!” Naturally the group feels the ranger is happy to see them. Then the ranger turns evil. His smile to a demented sneer as he unveils his true intentions. “You guys haven’t paid for parking, you’re parked illegally, you’re hacking on a tree with a hatchet and you let off fireworks at two in the morning last night! Either you are all gone when I get back, or I am writing everyone tickets!” He storms away. You try in vain to ask a question as he flexes his pecks to his female accomplice. You are all left standing there wondering who is to blame. Time to turn to the disposables! Thank God we remembered to invite some disposables! As the disposed of participants drive off you are satisfied that the ranger was able to assert his authority while allowing you to stay after assuring him that the perpetrators were expelled from camp.
3. Dress appropriately. In this case, we chose to look like a bunch of dudes on our way to a Chick-Filet protest. Tight clothing, with overtly homosexual messaging as well as brightly colored accessories is a must. This clothing allows for maximum performance during the game due to the form fit and flexibility. It also means that everyone will give their best effort in order to prove that the flamboyant attire is merely a ruse to fool the competition into thinking you are not manly enough
4. Do something stupid and moderately dangerous before and after the games. One example we came up with is “Wrist Rocket Roulette.” Sit in a circle, do a quick hand check, then begin to have your designated sling shot operator shoot his ammunition straight up in the air. Then just wait for it to hit someone on the head. The anticipation of getting struck will give you goose bumps and plenty of giggles. Make sure the biggest and manliest looking among you whines the most during this game. That adds in the ever important comedy factor that you need at any man game event. Light armor can be used for protection. I chose a paper plate to protect my freshly shaved head. A stupid choice like potentially losing an eye will keep things light and funny. This activity never gets old. You can also do easier games like, “Throw the football at people who aren’t looking” Or “Hatchet in a crowd.”
5. Vomit at strategic points in the game, not just when you “feel” like it. I chose to induce vomiting two events prior to the iron man challenge that closes out the games. The iron man is a six pack chugging contest. Three beers per partner. This was a key turning point in team-Some like it hot-s medal hopes as it allowed me to be on an empty stomach going into the finals.
6. Have a gluten intolerant person in attendance. This makes sure you have someone to judge the competition because they can’t drink beer! Make sure you bring a striped tank top and booty shorts to make it clear who the referee is. Try to get them to drink anyway in hopes of seeing the look on their face when the gluten hits their system. We were unfortunate enough to not get to witness it at this year’s event, but hopes are high for 2013.
Put this event on your bucket list. After all, we do things like this for two main reasons. The first and most obvious is for the experience itself. The second reason we do it, is to have a story to tell. Some of the best times I have come when I sit around with friends and we share stories. I want stories to tell. To be able to say “One time I flew from Los Angeles to Oregon to win a little John Wayne trophy for third place in the man games. I wore neon yellow and green trimmed underwear with a tight shirt that said “First Come First Served” on it. I think the park ranger thought he walked up on a Tosh.0 fan club meeting. We all passed out at like ten o’clock and thought Steve was dead when he wasn’t moving the next day.”
To my fellow participants, including the disposables, I extend my thanks. To my wife who was more than happy to have me go-I think I paid you back in full upon my return.
Monday, June 25, 2012
Men plus Women Equal 4
Monday, December 13, 2010
The Christmas Story
I grew up in Harrisburg publicly poor. There are two different kinds of poor. People you know are poor and people you don't. I have been both during my childhood. We always seemed to lack extra money. Weird how that happens when you are raised by someone who likes to gamble. While Dad was in the army people didn't realize we didn't have much because everyone looked the same. Lived in the same kind of housing, wore the same things, all shopped at the same places and so on. In sixth grade my father, brother and myself moved to Harrisburg to live with my dad's girlfriend. She had money, but that still didn't make it's way down the chain to my brother and I. I had two pairs of jeans and second hand, bright silver wresting shoes. But still more privately poor. Not too long after we arrived in Harrisburg my dad and his girlfriend had a falling out and my grandma came to her baby boy's rescue. So she bought the trailer across from the grade school. Yep. We lived in the trailer across the street. Kind of hard to act like a trust fund child when you walk home to that. So from that point on it wasn't like I was fooling anyone on my financial situation.
December of '95, if I remember correctly, my brother had graduated high school and I was a Junior. Josh moved out post haste and I couldn't and didn't blame him. I was just my dad, my dog and myself. Many of you remember Pretty as the dog who layed in the street and wouldn't move for your car. Or maybe she ran over to the school during lunch to say hello. Perhaps you were at the football game at the high school when I had to chase her off the field before we could start the game. Good dog, but I am off topic. Dad got a call that Grandma had a heart attack. It was the week before Christmas and he was understandably distraught. He left immediately for California to be by her side. Good for him to support his mom like that. Not so fun for me, who was left at home. I had no family in Oregon at the time outside of Josh who was off doing something for the holidays that I can't recall. Mom was in Montana living her life there with my little sister. No Aunts or Uncles or anything like that. Just a newly christened seventeen year old home alone for the holiday.
I needed some kind of tree. So what if it were just the dog and I. A tree was definitely a must have. Ray Crosiar was free that day and a willing accomplice to trespassing and to a minor degree theft, so we went over by Morse Brothers to see what we could see, saw in hand. The trees were all too big to cut down and drag home. One of them had a pretty good looking branch though so we cut it off and drug it to the trailerhood. We kind of wired it up since I didn't have a stand and it looked...well...like a branch wired up. So pretty pathetic. I knew why it looked so pathetic though. No decorations. We didn't have any decorations but being a resourceful youth I did the next best thing. Toilet paper. This was the logical choice because a) I had some (Thank God) and b) it could be reused and my butt would have a nice aroma of pine.
I settled in for my lonesome holiday. Chin up though. I don't remember being sad. I just remember knowing that it was the situation I had to deal with, so I had to just deal. Well I had been going to church for a bit and the family up seventh street had become a favorite of mine to hang out with. Gregg was a good guy who was really nice and Brenda seemed to think that I had a hand in hanging the moon. She also was constantly telling me I should marry her daughter Shannon. Shannon was a fun girl who always seemed to be fun and a bit sarcastic so I didn't mind that. Her little brother Kris was funny and annoying at the same time. Every time he would get me worked up enough to decide to put the hurt on him he would run away though. Well the Skovbo's caught wind of my predicament and asked me to spend the holidays with their family. Normally I would say no to the offer of help. Needing help means being vulnerable and being vulnerable meant being weak and if you are weak you can be hurt. I don't like being hurt. I lied a lot to people to get around them knowing I needed help. "My ride is on the way" "I don't like that movie so have fun but I am good" "I'm not hungry, don't feel well." Well for some reason instead of saying I was too busy wiping my ass with my tree decorations to go to their Christmas stuff, I just took the offer. As I told my kids it was a good Christmas. What did I get that Christmas? Well if we are talking about physical gifts, I got one. Shannon's family was gathered at her grandparents house all opening stuff and out came a gift for me. Much to my surprise. They obviously felt very bad for me and decided to give me a gift that was highly prized. A package of socks. Good thing I was an accomplished deceiver as I told them how much I liked the socks. "Hey white, my favorite color. How did you know?"
At this point both of my kids are silently watching me from the hallway. They are standing in the hallway because that is where they were when I started yelling at them about being ungrateful. Jax sparked the controversy. I told them to give me their non-electronic scaled back Christmas lists. Jax couldn't believe he would be missing out on all the stuff he wanted. He explained how excited he was to get those things at Christmas and also talked about the let down it would be after anticipating it all year. I told him Christmas was about caring for your family more than stuff. His reply stunned me. "Dad, I care about this family every other day of the year. Can't this be the one day I don't?" That is the point I started yelling my Christmas story at them. And that is where they stood as I finished my story about only getting socks.
"You know what though guys?" I said after drilling home the fact that I would rather they just say thanks for coming then pretending the socks were for me. "All I got for Christmas was a pair of socks. And it was the best Christmas I ever had. I spent time getting to know your mother, the girl I was going to marry. Even though she acted like she didn't want me there I know she did. I also got to spend time around a real family. One that loved each other and did real family things. I didn't get that. So although I got a pair of re-gifted socks I was still happy and thankful!"
Taylor welled up with tears as she began crying and telling me she was sorry that I had to spend Christmas like that. Jax, less indignant at this point said he understood now and was fine spending a Christmas that was family focused. I hugged my little girl and felt that sense of great satisfaction that come from knowing you have done your job as a parent. Making your kids to feel guilty about being spoiled.
Monday, November 22, 2010
Three Dog Night
Friday, June 18, 2010
The OCD Project
My fav is the, "I can kill people with my thoughts" guy. He is all sorts of freaked out that his thoughts are going to harm people. Wracked with guilt over this great power he is compelled to seek treatment. I have to tell you something buddy, if I really, I mean really thought that my brain beams could mess people up.....One thing comes to mind. It ain't guilt either. Its SWAGGER. Hell I would have more swagger then Little Wayne. Why feel bad?! I would feel totally superior. I would be on the phone right now with my big brother screaming "That spill in the gulf. the one that is destroying everything, yeah you know the one. I did that because you were an ass to me. Way to go Josh. You killed crawfish and ruined Jon Lemond's Jambalaya. If you even think about screwing with me again you're next!" The practical applications would never cease. "Taylor Jones, you don't have to eat your veggies, but I am sure the famine I cause in Africa because of that will make you think twice." Mind beam famine power enabled!
There is no OCD thing I wouldn't enjoy having. Germ girl, why is she sad? A girl who never has to clean?! Us guys have been loving that for eons. Repetitive person who has to do something over and over, I have to force myself to do that. Its called the elliptical. How awesome would that be if I couldn't stop. Am I right or am I right?
The best person on the show is jack ass therapist guy. He gets to get paid to legally torture people. Its like a license to waterboard. "Shelly, I know you are afraid that if you see yourself in the mirror, bloody marry will jump out and steal your soul. Well open your eyes because you are in a women's changing room! More mirrors than on a disco ball! Oh Shelly yes! Slamming your head in that mirror is you telling bloody Mary to go away for good. Shelly....Shelly...Somebody get a mop. And a new Shelly." Therapist guy couldn't believe that when he put Masochist as a qualification on the application that it was the hook that got him the job.
I just hope next season they have someone who has OCD about not wanting to be on a reality show. Ooooh ooooh even better...and I just thought of this. How about people who have OCD about wanting to be on a reality show? Oh wait, they already have that. It's called The Hills! Zing!
I think we all have it to some degree. Something our brains make us do, that makes no sense, that inhibits our lives or hurts us. I'm talking to you stalker guys and dolls. Yeah you know who you are. You like someone, and then your OCD comes out. You think that by trying to drive away anyone from the opposite sex and by following them and freaking the F#@% out when you see them within a city block of the afore mentioned opposite sex, that they will love and appreciate you for it. They tell you to stop being insane but you just can't. Instead you wind up with another restraining order for the 'ol dart board. Maybe you are the- can't help but look in every mirror I walk past girl, or has to eat everything on their plate separately guy. We all have a little crazy in us. What's yours?